The word of God is the word of the most loving lover (> than your spouse, gf)

What is your response to his word?
Do you read the sermon on the mount with a heart of a blessed and loved child of God?

“If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.”
“All you need to say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.”   Matthew‬ ‭5:37‬ ‭NIV‬‬

““You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.”
‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5:38-42‬ ‭NIV‬‬

that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.
Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
”   Matthew‬ ‭5:45, 48‬ ‭NIV‬‬

4 reactions to God's law (love)
  1. Ignorant, or, don't care --> live as they please <non-C>
  2. Hypocritical -> surfacely godly to seek human approval and praise (Pharisees, scribes) -they are self-conscious, only to serve self
  3. Accused (saved) - instead of getting comfort from the word, but they don't receive assurance of God's love, grace, support and plan. They see the rebukes (negative) only 
  4. Enjoy being a child of god- enjoy full freedom and reconciliation with God
*pray that we restore the right heart(reactions) as we read the word of god

What's God's word all about? he is emphasizing the inner, not the face value of commandment --> LOVE

Not letters but love (heart) 
Internalise 
Wellspring of a person's behavior comes from the heart.not changing behavior but heart
Heart changes, only outward changes 
  1. Heart of Sonship 
    • God's word is relational first, then instructional 
    • Only obedience that stems from the heart of child can please god 
    • Do we confirm ourselves that we are COG? 
      • Are you hypnotising yourself? Because people say so? 
      • Live as father (live out His righteousness, kindness, love towards souls ) --> only then you confirm you are COG!
      • Jesus is the perfect example --> new heart (assurance)
      • State of the heart is important (heart of willing to submit, irregardless of situations)
  2. Love 
    • How to be holy? 
    • Love covers a multitude of sins -> that's why God's love make us holy
    • Only love can enables us to do more than what's required 
      • The law specifies the minimum (do not cheat on people) 
      • But love renews and deepens -> you love instead of cheating 
    • Only when you are in a loving r/s with God that we will be satisfied (won't steal, won't commit adultery
    • Silken fetter is love. You don't impose, it's a natural response; love knows no boundaries 
    • If you know God is with you. You have a lord in life -> you won't be easily shaken 
    • Practice until we can see and feel God's love in everything 
We often go into Virtuous cycle 

Be perfect, as I am perfect - seek a perfection that cannot be attained in this life 
  1. Don't be discouraged by our failures 
    • We will surely fail. Unless we are no longer on earth
    • Fight against discouragement by confirming that you are already victorious in Christ, no longer enslaved by sin, yes, you may still sin, but you will not Like it.
  2. Pursue perfection 
    • Why? Because this is the way to blessing (because if you are always going backward, then you will be full of doubts and discontentment)
    • It's even harder (miserable) to not be like father (grace and love abound)
    • But it can be hard in trying to pursue. So we need to hold onto the promise of God (Ro 6:6)
    • HS will stir us - make us to continue liking the good of God and disliking the impurity and intrusion of triggers that put our love with god at risk 
    • Hard to be perfect yes, but HS dwells in you (born again) because it is when you are weak that HS strengthens even more, forgiveness of Christ covers