Honoring Our Parents

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Pastor Vincent - 17 October 2013

Beware Of The Influence Of Sin

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Man often understand sin loosely. To many, sin is committing adultery, telling lies, taking drugs, murdering and more.. But sin is more than just the action of committing the wrong doings, it is the spiritual problem inside man that slowly creeps into us, without us knowing, that drives us away from the truth of God. It takes away our wanting to approach God fearlessly and stripping away our desire to come to Him. Sin is Satan's strongest weapon against evangelism. Because the moment you separate from the love of God, you lose the conviction in testifying for God. As a result, the world attracts you for it fulfills the desires inside you; the word gives you pressure and make you feel accused, for you know the truth but you cannot do it. Slowly, we are captured by fear than love. One day, we even lose the ability to love self and others. In fact, the most frightening thing in this world is not sinning but the unconsciousness of sins. It is through regeneration in Christ (born again) that one comes to realize the depth of our sins and the immense power of the finished work on the cross. If you want to overcome sin, you have to become a new person, born again in Christ. With a new life, there will be birth of new desire - and that is to seek God always and pursue Holy Living. Come to Lord and tell Him about your sins. Taste the sweetness of repentance today and leave Satan with no room in your heart to accuse you and toy your emotions. For Satan drives you away from God using the sins, God is still loving you and waiting for you to return, just like the prodigal son. Those forgiven much, love much. A person who has tasted the immense depth of God's love will hate sins and yearn to be in sync with God and testify for Him.

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Problematic attitudes toward parents.

  • Young children >>> Adult children
  • More independent, feel smarter >>> Despise parents
  • Pride
  • Familiarity breeds contempt (take for granted)
  • Self-entitlement

 

Why should we honor parents?

  • Unique parents given by God
  • Give us life
  • They have loved us
  • God’s clear command:
    • <Ex 20:12> “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.
    • <Ep 6> 1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise— 3 “so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”
  • Honoring parents is like honoring God.
  • <Mt 15> 4 For God said, ‘Honor your father and mother’ and ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death.’

5 But you say that if anyone declares that what might have been used to help their father or mother is ‘devoted to God,’ 6 they are not to ‘honor their father or mother’ with it. Thus you nullify the word of God for the sake of your tradition.

  • Jesus is best example of honoring God and parents.
  • “But what if my parents are not honorable?”
    • “Honor” given not just for “merits” but also for “rank”.
    • Forgive them as God has forgiven us.
  • “But what if my parents are non-Christians?”
    • Respect them for the wisdom that comes with age <Job 12:12>.
    • But if they ask us to contradict God, then obey God rather than them.
    • <Eze 20> 18 I said to their children in the wilderness, “Do not follow the statutes of your parents or keep their laws or defile yourselves with their idols. 19 I am the Lord your God; follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws.
  • Honor parents >>> Submit to other forms of authority

 

How should we honor our parents?

  • Very young children >>> obey parents
  • Adult children?
  • God gives us parents for us to minister grace and love unto them
  • Accept them for who they are, don’t be too critical of them
  • Care most for their salvation
  • Take good care of them
    • <1 Ti 5:8> Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
  • Seek to delight them
    • <Prov 23:25> May your father and mother rejoice; may she who gave you birth be joyful!
    • Intimacy
    • Seek to understand them
    • Express appreciation
    • Seek their advice
    • Mutual sibling love
  • Honor parents not with material, but with heart (love).
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Preacher Hui Jun
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Huijun serves as Secretary of The Blessed RUN Ministries. She is also the Preacher at The Life Church and Missions (Singapore). She graduated from Singapore Bible College and currently lives in Singapore with her husband, Chengji.

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