Understanding And Resolving Anger

Understanding And Resolving Anger

Pastor Vincent - 12 March 2015

Make Good Judgment Through A Pure Spirit

In our everyday living, we receive a lot of information about people and things, causing us to respond to them in certain ways. And it is important to not only make good judgment on them, but also rejecting and challenging the wrong thoughts we have, so that we have assurance in the decisions and footsteps we're taking. Often, we use certain yardstick or standard to discern the thoughts coming to us. Instead, what is most needed is a pure spirit that is upright before God - one that recognises the truth of God as supreme, and constantly pray through it to seek His will in discerning all things coming to us. Reject and go against the self-serving voices, rationalization and own logics inside us, while there's speck in others eyes, likewise, there may be spiritual blindness of our own eyes too. Pray to seek God's will according to His truth, and Holy Spirit will work according to the truth we know, manifesting the loving kindness, wisdom and love of God to the people around us!

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<Eph 4:26-27, 31-32> ESV

26 Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, 27 and give no opportunity to the devil (Or: Do not give the devil a foothold).….  31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

 

Be angry and do not sin <v26>

1) Intrinsically and inherently, anger in itself is not a sin.

2) Understand “Righteous Anger” – Can be a powerful force to put a stop to sinning.

3) Yet, our anger many a times lacks element of “righteousness”.

4) Individuals, Family and World are all terribly affected by anger

 

2. DO NOT let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold <v27>

1) Persistent/prolonged anger invites the devil to work.

2) Prolonged anger can open a way for the devil in our hearts to make his lies believable to us.

 

Causes of anger and Answers to it

1) Disappointment

⟹ Learn Submission and Love

2) Frustration (Thru repeated disappointments)

⟹ Grow in True Love (Always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres)

⟹ Even accepting and even adapting to someone who doesn’t change quickly)

3) Pain/Hurt

⟹ Understand that internal and emotional pain are more hurting than physical ones 

⟹ Learn how to relate your pain/hurt rather than retaliation

⟹ Most important, look to the Cross of Calvary – The greatest pain ever inflicted, yet brought redemption.

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Pastor Vincent Choo
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Vincent serves as the President of The Blessed Run Church. He is also the Senior Pastor of The Life Church and Missions (Singapore) and is an ardent missionary to the Chinese World. He currently lives in Singapore with his wife, Qiufen, and has three kids, Mary, David, and Caleb.

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